Illinois Civil Unions
As of June 1, 2011, civil unions are an option for same-sex and different-sex couples in the state of Illinois. Couples choosing to dissolve a legally recognized civil union in Illinois will be allowed the same legal process as those who were married and are divorcing. In some instances, however, mediation may be a more appropriate process. In particular, mediation allows for an amicable end to a relationship while keeping individuals, not the courts, in control of the outcome.Many issues that result during an LGBT couple's separation can be successfully addressed in mediation including the division of property and finances and the establishment of a parenting plan. Mediation is an alternative that can address the unique needs of LGBT individuals and couples.
For information regarding civil unions, Lamda legal created a frequently asked questions document that can be downloaded here.
Noah Mediation Services maintains cultural competency regarding LGBT specific issues. See our LGBT mediation services page.
LGBT Mediation Within a Continuing Relationship
The beauty of mediation is that it can be used in a preventative way to establish a strong relationship base for couples. To celebrate Civil Unions in Illinois, Noah Mediation Services is offering a 20% discount on the first 4 hours of mediation (two 1-hour individual sessions and a 2-hour joint session) in April and May, 2011 on all LGBTQ cases.Noah Mediation Services encourages all couples to consider mediation as a preventative tool; improve how you manage conflict in your relationship, get on the same page regarding relationship expectations and become better negotiators through facilitated conversation. Topics to bring into mediation may include, but need not be limited to: finances, parenting, family, spirituality, socializing.
See our page on Couples' Mediation for more information. You may also find it helpful to look at our page on mediation for Never-Married couples.
For more information about the mediation process, please visit NMS’s FAQ page: http://www.noahmediation.com/FAQs.html.