Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Mediation

LGBT Couples and/or Parents Separating

You are probably well aware of the lack of legal rights for LGBT individuals and couples, especially when it comes to marriage (or equivalent) laws.  The separation and/or divorce of LGBT couples can be extremely complicated given the inherent lack of consistency between states.  Most courts, including Illinois, have no expedited legal process for LGBT couples with joint property or finances; instead, most end up in Chancery court.  While there are some protections for LGBT parents raising children together, things can get very complicated if there is no record of co-parent adoption.*

Many issues that result during an LGBT couple's separation can be successfully addressed in mediation including the division of property and finances and the establishment of a parenting plan.   Mediation is an alternative that can address the unique needs of LGBT individuals and couples where the legal system continues to leave a significant hole in services.

Noah Mediation Services maintains cultural competency regarding LGBT specific issues.

LGBT Mediation Within a Continuing Relationship

Mediation can also assist couples wishing to remain together.  When conflicts or communication difficulties arise, relationships become strained.  Couples may find it beneficial to seek the assistance of a third-party .  See our page on Couples' Mediation for more information.

You may also find it helpful to look at our page on mediation for Never-Married couples.

LGBT or Questioning Individuals & Heterosexual Relationships

If you or your spouse are "coming out" or "questioning", mediation can assist you with the dissolution of your marriage or heterosexual relationship or help you decide whether or not to remain together.  Noah Mediation Services has cultural competency around LGBT specific issues and can work with everyone toward better communication and understanding.

* The information provided is not intended as legal advice and shall not be construed as such.  Information has been summarized from resources provided by Lamda Legal: http://www.lambdalegal.org/